Very cute and nice flow of their friendship, until such time as the advice and experience of each other do not lead them to bed. Typical, this occurs at a time when both poorly. Did not work out with her, he broke up with my girlfriend. Sorrow and pain, hurt and disappointment unite them. They begin to understand each other as never before. Choke their own saliva, talking about how he changed her, or how she left him. Sure this happens in a bar or club where there is booze. Then he, a friend called to see her, she's gracious agreed. They reach the door, and she tearful rushes into his arms and talks about how she had not wanted in this difficult moment to be alone. He was a true gentleman and a true friend, called to support it and easily be invited for a cup of coffee. Drank coffee. It's time to sleep. Formed, in a friendly, maybe on one couch. And the gentle touch of her hand and becomes thereby the moment, which cancels the friendship. They have tasted the forbidden fruit. Here it is the standard model of the development of friendly relations between man and woman.
Now, as they think, or think one of them, the relationship will be much stronger. But in fact, someone old friendships, and current love unites, and someone on the contrary creates problems. When we are friends, we do not notice many things. We do not see what is visible in the relations of love. And then all or ends, there is no friendship and no love and sometimes contrary to develop, strengthen and becomes indestructible.
I will not be new, if I say that from the standpoint of a psychologist and sex therapist, friendship, men and women - quite unnatural form of relationship that can exist relatively long time in only one case - people like each other, but there is a force majeure, not giving them the opportunity to become lovers, or one of the parties wants to madly love relationships, and the latter persists in ignoring hints first! And this axiom comes from the practical analysis of many specific situations and always life-affirming. Same-sex friendships may be based on mutual respect, the similarity of attitudes and characters, on the fact that we can safely discuss with a friend or girlfriend all the vicissitudes of our intimate life and get over her advice.