In continuation of Friendship.......

Very cute and nice flow of their friendship, until such time as the advice and experience of each other do not lead them to bed. Typical, this occurs at a time when both poorly. Did not work out with her, he broke up with my girlfriend. Sorrow and pain, hurt and disappointment unite them. They begin to understand each other as never before. Choke their own saliva, talking about how he changed her, or how she left him. Sure this happens in a bar or club where there is booze. Then he, a friend called to see her, she's gracious agreed. They reach the door, and she tearful rushes into his arms and talks about how she had not wanted in this difficult moment to be alone. He was a true gentleman and a true friend, called to support it and easily be invited for a cup of coffee. Drank coffee. It's time to sleep. Formed, in a friendly, maybe on one couch. And the gentle touch of her hand and becomes thereby the moment, which cancels the friendship. They have tasted the forbidden fruit. Here it is the standard model of the development of friendly relations between man and woman.

Now, as they think, or think one of them, the relationship will be much stronger. But in fact, someone old friendships, and current love unites, and someone on the contrary creates problems. When we are friends, we do not notice many things. We do not see what is visible in the relations of love. And then all or ends, there is no friendship and no love and sometimes contrary to develop, strengthen and becomes indestructible.

I will not be new, if I say that from the standpoint of a psychologist and sex therapist, friendship, men and women - quite unnatural form of relationship that can exist relatively long time in only one case - people like each other, but there is a force majeure, not giving them the opportunity to become lovers, or one of the parties wants to madly love relationships, and the latter persists in ignoring hints first! And this axiom comes from the practical analysis of many specific situations and always life-affirming. Same-sex friendships may be based on mutual respect, the similarity of attitudes and characters, on the fact that we can safely discuss with a friend or girlfriend all the vicissitudes of our intimate life and get over her advice.

Friendship between a man and a woman?

Can there be a real strong friendship between a man and a woman? Surely this question often asked students, sitting at his desk! Since they can not understand what this feeling increased interest in classmate or a classmate. Friendship is it? Love it?

Time passes and they become best friends and begin to believe in the friendship between a boy and girl, man and woman. They are the happiest people because they have not yet realized the law of attraction. They still do not understand that stretches plus to minus and minus to plus. What a bad stretches to good, and good to bad. That much in this world is based on the energy metabolism. That everything in life complement each other, and these supplements, and energy metabolism, as a rule, negative in comparison.

The friendship between a man and a woman - a concept in any case, a relative, as they heterosexual beings. And the thrust each other can occur only on the background of sympathy. Women are weak and fragile as it may be another man, because the main element of friendship is its support at a difficult moment, but as a woman can maintain order in the complex subconsciously, sees a potential advocate and father of the family?

How can a man in a woman see each other? He especially feels the smell, assess the external data, subconscious, it to him a sexual object, as a female in the herd. And if it is in this good-looking, if they do seize the animal instincts, and she becomes the prey in his eyes. Of course, he can talk to her about the sublime and beautiful, to ignore the call of the flesh, to convince himself that it was only friendship. For the time being ...

Men's health and stress

Men can have a three symptoms of stress. Must be able to recognize these symptoms, as women tend to perceive them as a personal insult, wrongly assuming that all it concerns them personally. These three symptoms - withdrawal, grunts and "off." When this happens to men, women usually think that he does not love her, and she think that their relationship is something going wrong. Correct interpretation of these symptoms can help women relax and give your partner a more reliable support to help him cope with stress and return to equilibrium.


Men's reaction to stress - is closed in itself.

The first reaction of men to stress manifested in the fact that it is closed and removed from a particular situation. Under the influence of stress, men tend to deny their feelings and mental anguish and automatically closed in itself. A common feature of closure is to stop communicating. Man does not want to talk about. His girlfriend will inevitably perceive this behavior as a personal insult, not realizing that it is closed in itself because it is trying to cope with stress.

Woman mistakenly assumes that this is far worse - it seems that he does not love her. This is understandable, since the closure for it - this is a symptom of growing irritation about the relationship, as well as a sign of lack of concern and involvement.

He is deaf to others' pain just as unaware of their own. He can not feel compassion. He downplays the emerging around the issue. When someone is in need of his sympathy, it automatically closed itself in order not to feel his own pain.

He acts as if he had everything perfectly, but, suppressing his feelings, is more aloof and withdrawn. He rejected all forms of intimacy and any attempt to love his men to help him. A woman needs to understand that when a man becomes closed or detached, it is internally struggling with their painful feelings. Any of its attempt to help him meet resistance or be rejected.

Vacuum Erector

Using a vacuum erector boils down to this: a man enters the penis into a hollow plastic cylinder, which is a short tube connected to a vacuum pump. Open end of the cylinder on the edge of the glued elastic material. This material serves as a gate - insulator, it is densely covers the penis and prevents access of air into the cylinder. When the pump from the chamber of the cylinder sucked air inside creates a negative pressure - a relative vacuum. In such devices always used a hand pump with a pear, for an arbitrary regulation of air pressure. With electric pumps do not apply.

Due to a negative pressure inside the cylinder the blood rushes to the penis and an erection is achieved.

The entire procedure usually takes three to five minutes. Once an erection, the user pulls tight elastic ring at the base of the penis - in order to prevent leakage of blood through the veins of the penis. As a result, the resulting erection will be kept about half an hour, or until it is withdrawn elastic waist.

One of the unpleasant drawback of this method stems from the fact that the blood, through which ensured an erection - primarily venous. A venous blood in the first place, much colder than the arterial, and secondly, it is a bluish color, and accordingly the same shade becomes the penis.

Vacuum Erector - the best option for men who want to solve erection problems without recourse to chemical drugs. According to one study conducted among men who use vacuum erector, 85% of them are completely satisfied with the action of the device, as, indeed, and their partners. Unpleasant effects are not so frequent, and, unlike the elastic implanted prosthesis, the side effects quickly disappear if the device is used less often or with less intensity. On the other hand, a cylinder with a vacuum pump - quite unnatural device, which is one of its kind could bring to the relationship partner rather awkward. In addition, for the use of vacuum erector requires certain technical skills.

Viagra and alcohol

In clinical trials of Viagra, it was observed that the level of the drug in the blood if the patient while taking certain other medicines - probably due to the fact that other drugs in any way affect the speed of processing and launch of Viagra from the body. For drugs that have such an action is an antibiotic erythromycin, tsimetin - an antioxidant which can be applied to treat tumors, called cimetidine and antifungal drugs ketoconazole and itraconazole.

Since an increased concentration of Viagra in the blood associated with the risk of unwanted side effects, experts Pfizer advise those who take cimetidine or other similar drugs, and definitely wants to undergo treatment Viagra, to begin treatment with minimal doses - 25 mg per tablet.

One can not speak well of such interactions of Viagra with other drugs, which do not need to worry. For example, Viagra does not affect the ability of aspirin prevent the blood clots - which is very important for many middle-aged people who take daily aspirin to prevent strokes.

Above all, there were no adverse effects on the interaction of Viagra and alcohol. Pfizer conducted a study in which healthy men took alcohol in such quantity that ultimately blood alcohol concentration of eight hundredths of one percent.

Such a mixture of Viagra and alcohol, as it turned out, lowers blood pressure no more than one alcohol itself. Alcohol, of course, having an impact on sexual function - both positive and negative. As he wrote about this phenomenon in his Shakespeare's Macbeth, alcohol "fans a passion, but takes away the possibility to implement it." Therefore, if you are taking Viagra, squeezed her alcohol, do not forget - the alcohol is quite able to negate all the achievements of Viagra.